Female magnetism has been the subject of many articles, movies, and training programs. But it still resists characterization. It is not something that needs to be measured and labeled. It is to be felt and exuded.
A charming woman is always in control of how she looks. This doesn’t mean you should be forcing yourself to smile all the time. It means staying charming and radiant even when you’re on your own. Remember, this is not just about looking good to other people — it’s about actually enjoying your own company.
Whatever she does, she never pushes herself to the edge of utter exhaustion.
There’s no point in working yourself to death for the sake of succeeding at work or making your loved ones happy — this road leads to nowhere! On the other hand, when you’re feeling relaxed and at peace with the world you’ve got a much better chance of fulfilling yourself at home and at work. Make sure to always replenish your internal ’batteries’ to stay radiant and bring light to the lives of others.
She never takes offense at the world and doesn’t regard life’s less enjoyable surprises as a personal insult. Nothing can be more stupid than to think that fate is out to get you! Every person in the world receives his or her own daily dose of reasons to feel self-pity. It’s up to us whether we make full use of every such opportunity or spare our nerves by remaining unperturbed.
A woman of style is always at the center of attention. She knows how to accept compliments and admiring stares. She neither shies away from popularity nor gets blinded by it. She knows her worth. When a colleague praises the way she looks, she doesn’t reply with, "C’mon, this blouse is really old!" She simply takes it for granted, thanking him in return.
When a woman is comfortable with her body
If you still think that a beautiful woman must possess a waspish waist and chiseled hips, then it’s high time to laugh at this stereotype and forget about it! There are plenty of examples of how charming soft-bodied, tender, chubby ladies can be — provided they can highlight their winning sides. To look attractive, such a woman doesn’t need to wear tight jeans or dresses that are 2 sizes too small. Rather, her clothes must be in harmony with her body. Chubbiness is beautiful when not constrained by the demands of modern fashion.
Mariah Korotkaya, especially for WeGoRo
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