There are some personality traits and behavior patterns that everyone wants their significant other to have...even if they don’t admit it. The owners of these qualities make our lives warm, secure, and happy. Today WeGoRo shares them with you.
Self-sufficient people don’t compare themselves to others, don’t rely on their opinions, and don’t shift responsibility for their emotional state to their partners. Instead of losing themselves in a relationship, they build it up with their own plans and dreams. They are confident about themselves and their choices.
Honest people are not afraid to tell the truth. They are sincere in their judgments and honest with themselves. Dealing with such people is easy and enjoyable. They can be relied upon. An honest partner will never betray you, which is priceless.
It’s important that your better half trusts you both in small and global things, from choosing a dessert to confiding in you. Without trust, any relationship will fall apart or turn into tyranny with a total control over your every step. Being in a relationship should make you feel secure and comfortable, and trust is a very important ingredient of love.
To keep the romance alive, you need to flirt with each other, spring small surprises, engage in intimate conversations — all in all, to cherish a spark of passion. Someone who shows their interest and wish to be around their partner is very much liked and valued.
We’re talking about the ability to sense subtle feelings, to empathize, and to see the beauty of the world. Enjoying the sunlight piercing through the leaves of a tree or crying over a heartwarming fairy tale makes a person feel more alive and close to you. That’s the kind of person you want to hug and love.
Everybody wants to feel their loved one’s support. It’s important to know that they won’t leave you in trouble and will always be on your side no matter what happens. You need to be a team that can cope with everything together, no matter if it’s major trouble or learning how to dance for a night out together. This confidence encourages and inspires action.
The unchanging feelings and attitudes toward your other half, even under the pressure of temptation. The loyalty of body and soul. Fidelity to yourself, your views, and your beliefs. A person with qualities as valuable as these is a real blessing.
A sense of humor helps to overcome minor problems, resolve disputes, and makes life more fun. A person who has a good sense of humor and healthy self-irony has a developed intellect and is much easier to love.
The art of waiting without reproach, staunchly resisting hurdles and problems, and trying again and again without complaining is golden. The wisdom of such a partner can work true miracles.
It’s nice to be around a buoyant person who emits happiness. They know how to see the good in everything, and they enjoy the moment. With such a partner, any problem seems insignificant. An optimist inspires others to never give up.
No one wants to have a mean and grumpy person at their side. On the contrary, if you don’t get angry over trifles, if you forgive mistakes and know how to strike a compromise, and if your sincere smile radiates warmth and happiness, you’ll be very much appreciated. A charitable and kindhearted person is a real treasure.
It’s crucial to feel that you are loved. When someone close to you is not afraid to express his or her feelings and wants to be with you despite everything, you’ll want to be a personal superhero for them.
Illustrated by Alena Sofronova for BrightSide.me